Friday, November 21, 2014

PA Resource Page has been updated

I have updated a few things and added some more resources on the page.  Check it out or if you know of a loved one with a special needs child/person,  please send them the link.  Some of this information is not widely known and can benefit the people that need it most.

Trip to the ER

 Whew it has been a busy time for us!  Ava was in the hospital last week for high fevers and dehydration. She had some type of virus, that left her really sick.  She didn't move from the bed from Tuesday until Friday.
   I knew she was starting to feel better when she moved to the chair.

 And in typical Ava fashion, she leaves on her own terms and pushes the wheelchair instead of riding in it!

She is still not 100 %  but she is getting there! 

I am going to try and be a little more active on here.  I have just been overwhelmed with a few things and our blog was pushed to the back.  Hopefully I can find the joy of writing again and post some awesome stuff in the near future!

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Updating Blog

Please be patient as I am trying to update Ava's Blog template. Hopefully it will be only a day or 2. Thanks!

Wednesday, September 17, 2014



 Ava is one of only an estimated 400 diagnosed cases in the WORLD!!  As the technology grows to diagnose Kleefstra, the numbers are rising. We need to get awareness out there, so that the information is out there to help those that need it.   For the past eight years, I have always educated and advocated everywhere Ava went. She is always a first case scenario and I have to take 2-3 binders full of paperwork to every first time appts that she has to make sure the Drs, therapists, etc know what Kleefstra Syndrome is. 

I have also written Ava's Blog for the past 8 years.  It has been a labor of love, pouring into it everything about Ava and Kleefstra Syndrome.  There have been a few times where I thought I would stop it, but then someone always contacts me and tells me how much Ava's Blog has helped them, so I keep at it.  

To learn more about Kleefstra Syndrome and how it affects lives go to

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Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Autism School~ Ava's New school


First day of her new school was last week. I was worried about all the new changes, but so far she is doing great.  She has been so vocal the past month, and signing a lot more. I can't wait to see what the future holds for her and us. 

Getting her back to school hair cut.  No Problem!

Waiting patiently for the bus.

 I said, blow me a kiss!!  And she did this lol

Hanging out in a sensory swing.

Some cool features of the school. 

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Perfect Day

So this summer has been a busy one. Ava has been going to Autism camp, and extended school year. She has her good days and her bad days.  Transitioning, ANY transitioning is extremely difficult for the most part. We are just taking it a day at a time, it's all we can do. Every day is different and we never know how it's gonna go.  Today after alternating between building blocks and you tube videos all day. Her dad and I said enough and we put her on the bike. It was a little rough til we got her strapped in and going, then she settled down and got to work. She pedaled around 2 miles and at one point, I left her pedal by herself and I had to RUN to keep up with her!  

Here is a cute collage from last week, she was being so silly!!!

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Parents: Don't Give up!!

It's freaking hard, it's never ending, it's frustrating, lonely, no one ever understands until they are in this position.  You wonder at the injustice of it all, your child REALLY NEEDS the help and you are given the run around, time after time. People are rude, agencies don't talk to each other, the paperwork is daunting. On top of dealing with a child with special needs, you are caring for your other children, running a household, trying to have some sense of normalcy, but a huge part of your day is advocating for your child. You want to scream, punch something hard and throw in the towel. BUT you don't, you look at your child and you will continue to fight for what they and YOU need.  The help and the resources are out there, but most of the information is not given freely. You have to research, ask questions, make contacts, make people angry if you have to.

Find it, Use it, Go after it, 
and SHARE it. 

The thousands of phone calls, meetings, papers, will get you somewhere. DO NOT GIVE UP. In doing what you are doing, you are not only helping yourself and child, but anyone else also in your situation.  It's hard I understand, I am only in year 8 of this journey, but I continue to learn, be educated, empower myself.  YOU CAN DO THIS.  If you have a support system to help you along the way, awesome. If you don't, Be your own cheerleader!!  Make a poster, make a mantra, do whatever you have to do to keep going.

You will find "Your People".  The ones willing to go the extra mile, to give you a quick phone call about something, they just learned about. The ones to call and check up on you and your child to make sure there isn't something they can help you with.  There are people out there willing to help, but you have to find them first.

Having a special needs child, has it's unique share of challenges, most harder then what they should be. By having
dedication and perseverance you just may find what you are searching for. 

And give your kiddos extra hugs and smooches, they are what matter and worth the fight!!

Best Wishes in your endeavors!